Friendship & activity partners

What is a free app to make friends?

Souldaters is a free app for making friends as well as dating: choose "friends only", join tribes such as hikers, book lovers or vegan, and connect with people through a mutual wave before chatting. Everything is free. Well-known alternatives include Bumble's friend-finding app for one-to-one connections and Meetup for group events.

Making friends as an adult takes more intention than it used to. A good friend-finding app helps you meet people with shared interests nearby, and makes it easy to move from chat to a real plan.

Loneliness is common among adults, and it often has nothing to do with personality. Moving city, changing jobs, becoming a parent or ending a relationship can all shrink a social circle quickly. Apps help because they show you who nearby is also looking, which removes the awkward guesswork of approaching strangers. The best results come from pairing an app with a shared activity, so that a first chat quickly becomes a walk, a class or a regular coffee.

How to make friends on Souldaters

  1. Sign up free and choose "friends only" (or "both" if you are also open to dating).
  2. Join tribes that match your hobbies and lifestyle, such as hikers, book lovers, runners, gardeners, gamers or expats.
  3. Introduce yourself on a tribe discussion board or suggest a simple plan.
  4. Wave at people who share your tribes. When they wave back, chat opens.

Friends-only members appear only to others looking for friends, so intentions are clear. Filters like sober or non-drinkers can help if you want friends who prefer tea to bar nights.

Tips for turning matches into friends

  • Move to a concrete plan within a few messages: a walk, a market, a class.
  • Choose recurring activities. Friendship grows through repeated contact.
  • Be the one who follows up; most people are glad someone did.

Alternatives

Bumble offers friend-finding as its own app with a large community. Meetup is best for group events and clubs. Local classes and volunteering are also great. Many people combine an app with a regular activity. See our best apps to find friends and how to make friends as an adult.

Related tribes

Read more

Answer by the Souldaters Editorial Team · Last reviewed September 26, 2026

Meet people who share your values

Free dating and friendship for kindred souls — mutual match first, then chat.

Join Souldaters — free 100% free · 18+ · match first, then chat