How to Find Vegan Friends (Online and Near You)
TL;DR
To find vegan friends, go where vegans already gather: vegan potlucks and festivals, animal sanctuary volunteer days, plant-based cooking classes, vegan restaurants and online vegan communities. Friend apps with diet filters or vegan groups help you find people nearby. Suggest a specific plan, like trying a new vegan restaurant together, to turn a chat into a friendship.
Key points
- Vegan friends make everyday life easier: shared meals, shared values and less explaining.
- Potlucks, sanctuaries, festivals and cooking classes are the most reliable offline meeting spots.
- Online vegan groups and friend apps with diet filters help, especially in smaller towns.
- Food is the easiest invitation: a new restaurant, a market or a cook-together evening.
- Vegan friendships work best when they are built on more than veganism alone.
- Keeping warm friendships with non-vegans is healthy and entirely possible.
The easiest way to find vegan friends is to go where vegans already gather, such as potlucks, animal sanctuaries, vegan festivals, plant-based cooking classes and online vegan communities, and then invite someone you click with to share a meal. Food is the natural bridge: "Want to try the new vegan ramen place on Friday?" turns a friendly chat into a friendship far faster than endless messages.
Plenty of vegans feel like the only one in their friendship group, office or family. Having even one or two vegan friends can make a surprising difference: no explaining at dinner, someone to share recipes and restaurant finds with, and a sense that your values are normal rather than a constant topic of debate.
Why do vegans want vegan friends?
- Easy shared meals. No menu negotiations, no "is there anything you can eat here?"
- Shared values. For many vegans, the choice is rooted in ethics, environment or health, and it is comforting to be around people who get that without a debate.
- Practical support. Recipes, product swaps, travel tips, nutrition advice and encouragement, especially for newer vegans.
- Relief from social friction. Constant questions and jokes can be tiring. Vegan friends offer a break.
That does not mean you need only vegan friends. Most vegans have a mix, and that balance is healthy. More on that below.
Where can you meet vegans in person?
| Place | Why it works | Tip |
|---|---|---|
| Vegan potlucks | Everyone brings a dish, conversation flows around food | Bring something you are happy to share the recipe for |
| Animal sanctuary volunteer days | Meaningful shared work, strong values overlap | Go regularly to see the same volunteers |
| Vegan festivals and markets | Big concentration of like-minded people | Chat to stallholders and fellow shoppers; follow up via local groups |
| Plant-based cooking classes | Hands-on, collaborative, often small groups | Suggest cooking together afterward |
| Vegan restaurants and cafes | Become a regular and you will recognize faces | Community boards often list events |
| Animal rights and environmental groups | Shared purpose, recurring meetings | Choose a group whose tone matches yours |
| Yoga studios and wellness events | Often a high share of plant-based people | Stay for the tea afterward |
What if there are no vegan events near me?
In smaller towns you may need to create the gathering yourself. Host a monthly potluck and post it in local community groups. Suggest a vegan dish swap at work. Ask a local cafe whether they would host a plant-based evening. Even two or three regulars is a community, and it tends to grow once people know it exists.
Where can you find vegan friends online?
Online communities are especially valuable if you live somewhere with few vegans, or if you are new to veganism and want support.
- Local vegan groups on social platforms. Search your city or region plus "vegan". These often organize meetups and restaurant nights.
- Group-event platforms. Look for vegan dinner clubs, potlucks and plant-based cooking groups.
- Friend-finding apps with diet filters. These let you find vegans nearby who are open to new friends.
- Interest communities. Vegan fitness, vegan parenting, vegan travel and zero-waste groups combine veganism with another shared interest.
On Souldaters, diet is a profile field, and you can join the vegan tribe or vegetarian tribe and chat on their discussion boards. In Friends mode, you can use dealbreaker filters such as "only vegans" or "only vegans & vegetarians" to see only people who share your diet. Nobody can message until both people have waved, so every conversation starts from mutual interest. If you are also dating, our guide on how to date as a vegan covers that side.
What should you write to a potential vegan friend?
Whether you are replying on a tribe discussion board or starting a chat after a friend match, a specific message beats a generic "hi". Some openers that work:
- "You mentioned you love Ethiopian food. Have you found a good place for vegan injera around here?"
- "I saw you volunteer at the sanctuary. I've been meaning to go. Is there a day you would recommend for a first visit?"
- "How long have you been vegan? I'm about a year in and still hunting for a decent vegan cheese."
- "There's a vegan market on Sunday. I'm planning to go around 11. Want to meet there?"
Keep the first exchange light and practical, and move toward a real plan within a few messages. Chats that stay in recipe-swapping mode for weeks tend to fade.
What are fun things to do with vegan friends?
Once you have met a few people, you will want plans beyond the same brunch spot. Ideas that work well for small groups:
- A cuisine challenge. Each month, try a different cuisine's vegan dishes, at home or out.
- Foraging walks. Join a guided session and learn what grows locally, safely.
- Supper club nights. Take turns hosting a themed dinner.
- Volunteering together. A regular sanctuary shift or community garden session.
- Documentary and discussion evenings. Keep them relaxed and optional rather than preachy.
- Food travel. A weekend trip to a city known for its plant-based scene.
Many of these double as eco-friendly date ideas too, if a friendship ever turns into something more.
How do you turn a vegan acquaintance into a friend?
Shared diet is a great starting point, but friendship needs time together. Food makes that easy.
- Suggest a restaurant mission. "Have you tried the new vegan bakery? Want to check it out on Saturday?"
- Cook together. A dumpling-making night or a batch-cooking session is fun and collaborative.
- Go to an event together. A vegan market, a sanctuary open day or a documentary screening.
- Swap recipes and finds. Sending a new product or recipe is an easy, natural check-in.
- Make it a ritual. A monthly "vegan brunch club" with two or three friends keeps momentum without effort.
For more on progressing any friendship, see how to make friends as an adult.
How do you find vegan friends when traveling or living abroad?
Vegan communities can be a wonderful way to feel at home somewhere new. Vegan restaurants and cafes are often informal hubs, with notice boards and friendly owners who know what is happening locally. Look for plant-based cooking classes, vegan food tours and sanctuary visits wherever you are, and search regional vegan groups before you arrive so you can ask for tips.
If you are relocating, combining vegan communities with expat or newcomer groups works especially well: you get people who share your values and people who understand what it is like to start over. Our guide on making friends in a new city has a step-by-step plan for the first few months. And if you are a digital nomad, it helps to plan longer stays in cities with a strong plant-based scene, so you have time to become a familiar face rather than always being the newcomer.
Should vegan friendships be about more than veganism?
Yes. A friendship built only on being vegan can feel thin once you have exhausted restaurant recommendations. The strongest vegan friendships usually overlap in other ways too: a love of hiking, books, music, gardening or humor. Look for people who share your diet and something else.
That is one reason interest-based platforms work well: you can find someone who is vegan and also in the hikers or eco-conscious community. Our guide on meeting people who share your interests explores this further.
How do you handle differences within the vegan community?
Vegans are not a monolith. People come to it for ethics, climate, health or a mix, and they differ on activism style, strictness, and how they relate to non-vegan friends and family. A few tips:
- Lead with curiosity. Ask what brought someone to veganism rather than assuming.
- Avoid purity tests. Scrutinizing someone else's choices is a fast way to end a new friendship.
- Welcome newer vegans. People transitioning often need encouragement more than critique.
- Find your tone. Some communities are activist-focused, others are about food and lifestyle. Both are valid; pick what suits you.
How do you keep friendships with non-vegans?
Most vegans keep plenty of non-vegan friends, and those friendships can be just as close. Some approaches that help:
- Suggest vegan-friendly places. Many restaurants now have good plant-based options. Pick those and nobody feels restricted.
- Host and cook. Sharing a delicious vegan meal is often more persuasive than any argument.
- Agree to disagree. You do not need to debate at every meal. Choose when to talk about it.
- Focus on what you share. The friendship existed for reasons that go beyond food.
The bottom line
Finding vegan friends starts with showing up where vegans already gather, online and off, and using food as your invitation. Look for people who share your values and something beyond them, turn chats into shared meals, and keep your non-vegan friendships warm too. If you want a place to connect with plant-based people near you, the vegan tribe and Friends mode on Souldaters are a free, friendly place to begin.
Frequently asked questions
Where can I meet vegans near me?
Try vegan potlucks, animal sanctuary volunteer days, plant-based cooking classes, vegan festivals and markets, and the community boards at vegan cafes. Local vegan groups on social platforms and group-event sites often list regular meetups. Friend apps with diet filters can also show you vegans nearby who are open to new friendships.
Is there an app to find vegan friends?
Several apps and communities cater to vegans, and features vary. Souldaters is a free option with both dating and Friends modes, a vegan tribe with a discussion board, and dealbreaker filters like "only vegans" or "only vegans & vegetarians", so you can connect with plant-based people who share your values.
How do I make vegan friends in a small town?
Start online with regional vegan groups, then create an in-person gathering yourself, such as a monthly potluck or a vegan restaurant night in the nearest city. Post it in local community groups. Even two or three regulars can grow into a small community over time.
Is it okay to only want vegan friends?
It is understandable to want friends who share your values, especially around food. Most vegans find a mix works best: vegan friends for shared meals and support, plus non-vegan friends connected through other interests. There is no right answer; choose what helps you feel supported and at ease.
How do I deal with feeling isolated as a new vegan?
It is common to feel isolated early on, especially if family and friends are unfamiliar with veganism. Connecting with even one or two vegans, online or locally, can help enormously. Join a welcoming vegan community, attend an event, and remember that your existing friendships can adapt with time and good food.